Day 343 - Berry's Dirty Meme

So Miss Berry wants us to get dirty, and I love answering questions. But see...I don't consider myself a SEXY person. I'm cute. I'm funny. But sexy? Noooo. Which, if you've chatted with me about my past, and if you know that technically, I'm still a SLuicide Girl, you'd find it hard to believe. But it's true. I've played at being sexy, but in both lives, I'm reeeeally not. In fact, the older I get, the more I think that I'd rather everyone kept their nakedness in the house. *snickers*

Okay, on to the questions!!





What is your sexual orientation or do you not like to label yourself?

I'd consider myself fairly straight because I love men and have only ever wanted to be in a relationship with a man. But I have played around with women before. I was pretty experimental in my 20s. Well...and drunk.

Name a physical attribute that you find attractive or sexy.

I am a sucker for a good pair of hands. Big, well shaped, well groomed, strong hands on a man are sooo attractive! I also like chest hair because I like a man to be a MAN, not some little boy. I've also always been attracted to tall, big men, although my RL BF of 13+ years was shorter [although taller than me] and slimmer when we met. He's still taller than me. *laughs*

Are you promiscuous, a prude or in between?

I would definitely say I'm not promiscuous. Most people in SL would consider me a prude these days because I'm not flashing my gigantic prim boobs and my huge mesh butt all over the place, but I wouldn't consider myself one. I'm somewhere in the middle. I, again, just prefer that people keep their naked in the house. Although I don't mind talking about sex and stuff, I don't really enjoy seeing the porn parade that goes on. But, you know, that's other peoples' business and luckily it's fairly easy to mute if I don't feel like seeing it. :) And I hang out with people who generally feel the same way, so it's all good.

What turns you on?

That's a hard question for me these days because I have some issues that make my sex drive low. But, in general, if you can make me laugh, you've got me. I also like when a guy I'm with plays with my hair, like just brushes it off my face or tucks it behind my ear. [If my hair is loose. If it's braided or I have it up, please stay away from it.] I like being kissed on the inside of my wrist, too. Also, and this will sound superficial, but a cute little gift can sometimes get me going. Not diamonds or anything that will make me feel like I owe him. Just something cute that he saw that he thought I'd like.

Are you dominant or submissive?

Submissive up to a point. I like for him to take control, but I'm actually quite bossy most of the time. *laughs*

Are you into sexual roleplay?

I used to be. I guess I could still be, but it doesn't really come up.

Which sexual position is your favorite?

Berryyyyy!!! LOL! I like being on my back. Which sounds lazy, but there's a lot you can do like that!

Do you have any fetishes?

I loveeeee men in suits. Or dress uniforms. But mostly suits. Is that a fetish?

Have you or would you do porn, amateur or professional?

LOL!! Like...porn videos?? LOLOLOLOLOL! Actually, a longggggg time ago, my RL BF and I filmed ourselves while on vacation. Luckily we used a camera that had a mini tape, not digital, so I crushed and destroyed the tape when we got home.

Do you consider yourself sexy?

I already said no! And truthfully, I am quite okay with that. Not everyone has to be sexy, not everyone has to constantly make sexual references or prove their sexuality to others. Once in a while, I do wish I could be more sexy, but it's really not who I am inside, and that's okay. There's room for everyone in our great big world, even people who choose to keep their clothes on most of the time. :)